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Are you hearing the call?

Most of us men were not given much guidance on what it means to be a man. And while most of us do our best, there is often a quiet discontent inside of us as we go through life. Deep down we feel so much more is possible, yet most of us don’t know where we are going, don’t have the map, the tools, the support network and the knowledge of what to do with the “demons” that hold us back.

This immersive transformation program provides a rite of passage for modern men from all walks of life to reconnect deeply to themselves, their families and communities and their unique purpose. It is not about showing men THE way – it is about holding space for men to find their own way, back to themselves and in this world.

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What is covered?

This program is loosely structured around the four masculine archetypes described by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette – The King, The Warrior, The Lover and The Magician. It also focuses on three additional specific aspects of men’s work – The Beast, The Shadow and bridging the gap between the masculine and the feminine.

Key themes include:

· The Tree of Self – a roadmap for growth based on the latest neuroscience;

· Foundations of neuroscience, nervous system physiology and emotions;

· Trauma, masks and adaptations;

· Connecting with and alchemising anger;

· Processing shame, guilt and grief;

· Working with fear;

· Sacred combat and mindful self-defence;

· Nervous system regulation through breath, movement and sound;

· Developing your own protocol for processing emotions;

· Conscious relating principles and strategies;

· Foundations of working with primal energy;

· Bridging the gap between the masculine and the feminine;

· Understanding and reclamation of personal power;

· Defining your values, purpose and vision.

What is included?

· 9 weekly group workshops with embodied experiences

· Two immersive rituals

· Expert trauma-informed guidance

· Guest speakers and facilitators

· Experienced support crew

· Group integration and accountability sessions

· Weekly take-home materials

· Weekly homework

· Individual guidance

· Close-knit community of like-minded seekers.

What should I expect?

By the end of the program, provided you go all-in (including your homework), you can generally expect to:

· Feel much more grounded, centred, clear, confident and present;

· Process a huge amount of stuck energy and emotions, particularly those related to shame, guilt and grief;

· Have a much healthier relationship with fear and anger;

· Be able to connect deeper with your partner, family and community;

· Drop the bulk of the bullsh*t and be considerably more authentic;

· Have the knowledge and tools to navigate life much more effectively;

· Have better access to your gifts and sense of joy in life;

· Rewrite the story of your life and update “the code” your brain uses to drive your life;

· Have a strong sense of who you are and what you stand for;

· Be clear about your values and direction in life; and

· Have a strong sense of brotherhood and belonging.

Details

· Weekly workshops running from 1 October to 26 November 2026;

· Every Thursday 6-8.30pm in Scarborough;

· Two immersive rituals – one on17 October 2026 7pm in Scarborough, and the other on a Saturday evening in November – date, place and time will be announced in the beginning of the program based on the final number of participants;

· Dates and times of the weekly integration and accountability calls to be confirmed (will take into account availability of the participants);

· Weekly materials will be sent out after each workshop;

· Weekly workshops are in-person only, with no recordings or online options available.

Contraindications

Due to the nature of the program, it is not suitable for the following:

· Cardiovascular issues (including angina, previous heart attack, uncontrolled blood pressure);

· Neurological issues (including epilepsy or history of seizures);

· Serious respiratory issues (including severe uncontrolled asthma and emphysema);

· Current or recent severe mental health issues (e.g. psychotic episodes, schizophrenia or recent mental health hospitalisations) or spiritual emergencies;

· Some current or recent serious surgeries or physical injuries (particularly those affecting abdomen, chest or throat).

If in doubt, please consult with your doctor and speak to us before booking.

Program fee and payment plans

The payment for the application is set to variable from $450 (the first of four fortnightly payments) to the full fee of $1,800. If you would like to apply for scholarship or have a discount code, please reach out before applying. If you are paying less than the final fee upon application, as a condition of entry into the program, we will need to agree the payment plan for the remainder of the fee before the program commences.

Pay it forward

To allow a man who genuinely cannot afford it to join, portion of the proceedings will be allocated towards a scholarship for a free or discounted ticket.

Refund policy

Program fee is non-refundable due to change of mind or no show – please make sure you are all-in before signing up. If you are unable to continue the program due to genuine unforeseen circumstances, the remainder of the program will be refunded at $150 per week not attended.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at sergey.volotovsky@gmail.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

Is this for me?

This program is not your average self-development course. If you are looking just to learn some new things, hoping to sit quietly and take notes, wishing to just make new friends and not willing to put yourself out there and lean in fully – it is not for you. We are calling forward men who are willing to genuinely commit to themselves, the program and fellow participants.

What is the weekly time commitment?

Approximately 5 hours (2.5-hour weekly workshop, around 1-hour fortnightly group check-in and on average 1-2 hours of self-paced homework), excluding travel time. During two of the nine weeks there will also be an additional three-hour immersive ritual on a Saturday evening (date and time TBC).

What is the age limit?

Due to the nature of this program, it is suitable for men aged 18+.

Is this a movement of some sort?

No. This program has nothing to do with manosphere, men’s rights movements or any organised religion or belief system, nor is it a movement on its own.

Who are you to tell me how to live life?

I am not here to do that. I am not a guru, a shaman, a healer, a preacher or a teacher. I don’t want you to believe everything I say or copy my way of living. I am here to share what I’ve learned along my own journey, and to offer my ability and capacity to hold transformative spaces for men.

What is this program based on?

This program is based on my own lived experience and qualifications, including:

· Certified Trauma-informed coach, Embodied Processing and breathwork practitioner;

· Six years of group and individual men’s work, breathwork and somatic processing;

· Over twenty years of corporate facilitation and leadership experience;

· Twenty years of being a husband;

· Sixteen years of fatherhood;

· Twenty-eight years of martial arts; and

· Many scars, mistakes, stuff-ups, flaws, setbacks and shortcomings.

It is also informed and inspired by the work of my predecessors, mentors, authors and organisations who influenced my own work, including:

· Tim Morrison

· Adam Combridge

· Dr. Tony Fitzgerald

· Dan Brule

· Marcel Hof

· Stanislav Grof

· Carl Jung

· The Centre for Healing

· The Sacred Sons (indirectly)

· AIESEC (World’s largest Youth Leadership Development organisation)

· And others

What if I can't make some of the sessions?

Please reach out before applying. Generally, we should be able to accommodate a small number of planned absences.

What if I or a family member get sick during the program?

If you become unwell before a particular session (e.g. flu, cold, stomach bug or other potentially contagious conditions), you will be expected to not attend that session out of consideration for fellow participants, and we will make arrangements to get you back on track. Similarly, if you will need to care for family member who become unwell during the program, we will accommodate.

What if I’ve already done or currently doing some work on myself?

Good. There is likely going to be quite a few men in this category. Unless you are doing other work that is highly taxing on your nervous system or covering similar topics, this program is likely to be complementary.

What else will I be sold?

This is not a funnel or a pyramid scheme. At the end of the program, we will share information about individual offerings and some options available to take this work further. This will be done for information purposes only, to your complete discretion.

What if I am referred or invited by somebody else?

Good. Many men step into these kinds of spaces by referral, especially by their partners. However, if this is you – please make sure you own your decision fully, and if you decide to sign up, do it for yourself first.

What if I am shy / nervous / neurodiverse / unfit / have physical injuries or disabilities?

You are welcome as you are, subject to medical contraindications outlined above. We meet you where you are and will modify experiences as required. If in doubt, please reach out before applying.

Does my ethnicity, religion or sexual orientation matter?

It doesn’t. All are welcome. We do not discriminate by ethnicity, religion or sexual orientation, and do not tolerate conduct that incites or promotes division. We also expect the same of all program participants. If this expectation is not met, you may be asked to leave the program without a refund.

What if I am gender-diverse?

If you identify as a man and live as a man, you are welcome. However, if you are non-binary or a biological female who has not fully transitioned, this program may not be the right fit. Given the many individual considerations, please reach out before applying. This is not about exclusion – it is about ensuring the appropriateness of the program for you and the overall integrity of this container.

Is it worth the money?

This is for you to decide. This program comes down to approximately $42 per hour of expert-facilitated experiences. Whether it’s worth a genuine chance to break through and level up in all areas of life - is your call. A similar program five years ago changed my life, and it was one of the best investments I ever made.

What if I can't afford it?

If you strongly feel you would like to participate and genuinely cannot afford it, we will have some money allocated towards a scholarship fund. To apply for scholarship, please send me a message with a short summary of how you think this program will benefit you and your family/community, before you apply.

What's the name of the program about?

As a father of three daughters, I am a big fan of “Moana”. The original idea of “the wayfinder” was inspired by it, however there’re already quite a few initiatives with similar names, so I went with “The Wayseeker”. It speaks to the process of seeking our way in life as men - not a destination. Turns out “wayseeker” is also a term from Star Wars meaning a Jedi who independently follows the direct will of the Force – that will do 😊